Life is unpredictable and so this day, The Wife decides that I should think about the things that I really hope to achieve this life time so that there will not be any regrets should I really kick the bucket.
The list may not consist anything noble like saving the earth, building a school. But it will be The Wife’s very own list, personal to myself.
1) Get 5 ear piercings, 3 on one side and 2 on the other
This may sound very lame but it is a little wish that I have since school days. Finally managed to accomplish this on Labour Day this year. This is in addition to the first pair The Wife got before the wedding in 2010 and then a failed pair (left with one side) before Chinese New Year.
2) Visit all the Disneylands in the world
This is going to be an expensive one but I totally adore Disneyland as a place where magic comes alive. Can totally forget all worries and escape from the real world while inside them. And there are all the cute characters too and not forgetting the wonderfully thought out park settings and rides.
So far, have only been to the one in Hong Kong and Disneysea in Tokyo. Many many more to clear!
3) Design my own home without budget restrictions
Given the lack of budget, there were limited things we could do for our first home. Thus, The Wife hope that one day, we would be able to have a much freer hand in designing our next home.
4) Start my own business
No matter success or failure, The Wife hopes to start a small little business to see if I have inherited any of Daddy’s genes. Not much headway yet, even though I have taken the first step tonight to write some emails to my network of interest.
5) Have a baby
The Wife is already 32 this year and much as I want to spend the rest of my life traveling and having fun, hope to complete the family as well. Also, I know that The Husband wish to have a baby very much. To avoid the Water Dragon, we will start trying to conceive (ttc) somewhere at the end of May and hope that we can be Snake year parents.
6) Travel solo
Since young, The Wife has got a list of places that I really want to see including Japan, Turkey, Egypt, India and Tibet. Due to budget and time constraint, unsure of whether I will get to see them all but just hope to go to as many as possible! But amongst these, I hope to be able to at least make one solo trip, to connect with my inner-self and to clear the mind.
7) Maintain a self identity
The WIfe has seen countless of friends who are unable to talk about anything but their families and children and this really freak me out big time. I have lived a 32 years as myself and am rather proud of the fact that I am able to hold a proper conversation, hold my own at my workplace and have my own friends, so I really wish to keep it as such. I really dont want my Facebook to have nothing but my children’s photos, my appointment schedule to revolve around them and lose my whole life’s identity.
8) Buy the oddest items on my wishlist
Believe it or not, The Wife really want a Swiss army knife with wine opener and pen knife function which up till now nobody would buy for me. Ish okay, because will one day buy it for myself.
The next oddest thing would be a desktop skeleton… and yes, you hear it right, it is a skeleton structure I am talking about.
9) Bring my mum and aunt to travel around more
Unfortunately, my mum and aunt are not big fans of budget or shiong traveling. Thus, after a long planning, The Wife managed to get them to Malacca, Bangkok and Batam. Next up would be Hong Kong or Taiwan. Really do not wish for them to join a package tour instead… would miss out a lot of the local food and shopping that they would probably like.
10) Exceed myself
Last but not least is rather simple, and yet very difficult. Given that nobody is perfect, it is always easy to be able to exceed myself but yet I guess there is always a limit to what each person can do.
Till now, The Wife feel that I have somehow done what nobody expected me to do when I got to a senior manager position in my market research work. Probably shocked everybody as well when I went from non-exerciser to one who completed two Les Mills course programs and is able to run 10km from nothing.
That said, one can still question on why the limit cannot be pushed to become a full time instructor or to run a full marathon. Then again, there is no end to improvement…
10 seemingly simple items and 1 bucket list…. how many would eventually be achieved? Only time will tell.
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